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Why I cuckold my husband: A Testimony

April 9, 2011

Why do I cuckold my husband?

Why I cuckold my husband

The politically correct answer would be: “My husband is a cuckold, because that is what he is longing for and because he wants me to lead him to a deeper submission. If he wouldn’t, I wouldn’t do it.”

The answer is correct, and forms part of the reason why I began doing it, but I have to admit, in the presend I make my husband a cuckold because I like it.

I love making love with a man, and I love that my husband does not have the right to have the same priviledges as I have. I admit. I love meeting men, the whole process from the beginning of the meeting until the conclusion. I love my husband and I keep him up to date of things, because I love his support and his deepening submission, I love it when he feels the humiliation, and because I think it’s the role of man in a marriage.

It is part of who I am, what I believe. It is not a game but a way of life, and a statement.

As I said, I love the whole process. I like to flirt, seduce, be seduced by a beautiful man. I like to be asked out on a date. I like to tease my husband about my encounters. I like it when my husband helps me prepare for a new appointment.

I like to go out. I love the game, and to test a man. I like the kiss (the first kiss!), the first caress, to be in
his arms, and yes, I love sex! I like to see my husband before and after, shy, tormented, or otherwise confused. I love this power I feel, and I like what it gives me, and above all I like what it does to my husband.

And I can tell you, you do not know how it feels to really control a man until he is a cuckold, your cuckold, who knows and who is kept chaste throughout the process.

The cuckolding process is so much more then having sex. It is liberating and by allowing it my husband accepts his subservient position. It is a total power exchange of the husband submitting to the dominant female.

It is neither swinging nor wife swapping. It doesn’t happen because my husband craves for it. I would have stopped after the first try. I continued because it increases my pleasure, and because I feel like it. I enjoy every minute of it. Meanwhile, my husband exists to serve me. Everything is for my pleasure, and the frustration of my husband forms part of the pleasure.

It was my husband who brought it up, more then once. He had to convince me. Before I decided to give it a try, I told my husband that if we would do it, it might be permanent. And indeed. There is no way back.

86 Comments leave one →
  1. Kirk permalink
    December 26, 2011 3:07 pm

    This would be my wish for 2012 … That my wife would underscribe this statement and would treat me exactly in thus way ….

    Happy new year to you all …. Cuckold Kirk from Holland

  2. jim permalink
    January 2, 2012 4:22 pm

    I am a cuckold and my wife is dominant in this aspect. She enjoys sex with other men alone or with me but what she likes best is to have me invovled physically with her while she has sex with the other man. She likes to have me kiss and lick her and clean up the cum after the sex.she also likes to watch me please her other man in a variety of ways. I do not really like the taste of another mans cum or having my mouth filled with cock but i do like to please her

    • February 2, 2013 9:20 pm

      Yes anything to please our women. Her pleasure is paramount to our happiness.

  3. Kim permalink
    January 22, 2012 5:40 am

    It is the most beautiful relationship I have ever found myself in. Women have been fighting to be in control for centuries and now I learn that it is turn on to my man like no other! We describe it as controlled drama that deepens our affection for each other over and over again. I know I have found true love.

    • tom permalink
      July 9, 2012 12:07 am

      nice my wife has been having other men for two decades and i usually help

  4. April 16, 2012 3:22 pm

    My wife has lovers from time to time. She is stunningly beautiful, and I believe that knowing that she can date if she wants to helps her want to keep herself in shape. At first I was jealous, but now I know, from experience, and because she reasures me, that her occaisional “hots” for other guys does not diminish her love for me. We have discussed safe sex and I have absolute confidence that she will practice it. She knows that if she ever got into trouble on a date, or if she ever had too much to drink and needed for me to come get her, that I’m a phone call away. Its probably more natural biologically for a woman to have multiple lovers than it is for a man. She keeps me completly satisfied, and I am able to satisfy her, but her love and sexual desire is not a limited resource.

  5. lisa simpson permalink
    May 4, 2012 6:45 pm

    my husband fully accepts the fact I regularly cuckold him – I even do it in front of him most times – I love the feeling when a lover cums in me and sometimes in my mouth or over my face in his presence
    Husband must dress me very sexily before lovers cum and make sure my cunt is very wet- husband must ensure i have only a short skirt on and thin top – no underclothing and prepare for fucking.
    Husband must answer door for lover and lead him into bedroom- where he must sit in chair and watch until lover has finished with me

    • tom permalink
      August 20, 2012 3:34 am

      nice do you have him clean up the other mans cum

    • August 27, 2012 5:47 pm

      that is so wonderful that you have him answer the door and greet your BF or Bull. That is great that you involve your cuck hubby in that way. I’m sure he loves doing it as well. This way, he feels connected, he is there to witness you having your fun and excitement.

    • February 2, 2013 9:25 pm

      I want mine to have any and all the lovers she wants. It’s a turn on to know she doesn’t have to cheat because I want her to act on her desires. This leads to great sex between us. I would really never want it any other way.

  6. JoJo permalink
    May 29, 2012 1:59 pm

    I’ve been a Hotwife / BBC Slut for last 4 years so far now, and as a result of my multiple ongoing sexual liasons with a wide variety of black men exclusively, it has led us to the cuckold lifestyle. This was in fact something my hubby had fantasized about since he was in his midteens, having his wife become a devoted slut that would restrict his sexual pleasure and surrender myself to any available black men we meet at home or in our travels. When we dated I had no idea about any of this mind you, not until after we were married a year, did he slowly start revealing his fantasies of what really turned him on. It took almost 2 years of steady fantasy, roleplaying, sex toys and watching or reading alot of interracial porn together, that it slowly consumed our original sex life, and led me to finally try going black for real. While our core relationship was and still is extremely strong and beautiful, our sex life was always lacking, due to a combo of him having a very small dick and seriously lacking the skills in bed, and the staying power, to become a decent lover. But once I became a BBC Slut, and started seeing more and more black guys, both on my own and also had sex in front of my hubby, everything changed for the better for me. I experienced the best sex of my life, found out I loved being a slut and that I was also a size queen along the way. A big cock really is so much better then a little or merely averaged sized on, in so many ways. Over time, my hubby and I had sex less together until I eventually stopped allowing him to have sex with me anymore, so I could keep my body pure for my black bulls exclusively. It was something that seriously excited him, being cut off like that. As things progressed, he has since become my pussyboy too, where he frequently services my pussy during or
    after I’ve been with my lovers, and has started sucking a number of them off too at various times. He is not caged, but I do limit when and how he masturbates, and is typically only allowed to cum while watching me being taken by my bulls, or while he services my bulls, or lastly if I decide to give him head and swallow his big loads when he’s been a good boy. I never would have thought that this kind of relationship or marriage would ever honestly work, but much to my happiness it not only has, but in my opinion is the ideal style of relationship for alot of girls now in this modern day and age! I recommend it to anyone, and have personally been instrumental in converting a number of other girls (and guys) into both going black and living the cuckold lifestyle ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Rob permalink
      January 8, 2013 7:17 pm

      hi jojo

      my wife is a hot sexy blonde model.
      she loves the fantasy of fucking other men but when i ask her if she wants to do it in real she says MAYBE

      what do you think her MAYBE relly means


    • February 2, 2013 9:33 pm

      That sounds like the perfect relationship. Over the years I injuries a knee quite severely. I’ve put on a lot of weight, have a bad heart and take meds (side effect being finished ability to get a complete hardon. Just because my body is failing me doesn’t mean hers is. I liked this lifestyle before it injury and now find I need it to retain a health loving fulfilling relationship.

  7. Rachel permalink
    June 9, 2012 3:03 am

    I find the temptation of a new lover 2 much 2 resist. The excitement of going out on the 1st date, flirting all night and not being able to wait 2 get him home. Then you have that first kiss, and the passion found in a new lover where you make love there and then, not even making it 2 the bedroom. It could be on the sofa, the kitchen table or even on the stairs. I luv to feel his strong arms around me, his hands caress me and that erotic feeling as he slowly enters me for the 1st time. After the 1st time he cums in me we go to bed and make love slowly for a long time. Although my hubby knows it still feels soooo excitin and naughty 2 be in my lovers bed when hubby is at work and the kids at school and i am being made luv to by a sexy guy who totaly satisfys me.

  8. Simon permalink
    June 10, 2012 11:29 pm

    I didnt realise how much being cucked appealed to me until my wife subtly introduced me to it. She had been talking to a lady online who suggested ways she could find out if I was a possible cuckold. I confess that the thought of another guy in bed with my wife was always a turn on but I would never have admitted that to her. As I said my wife had been talking to a lady online who suggested little things my wife could try and see what my reaction was without my wife having to actually tell me she wanted to sleep with other men.
    One night in bed after a few drinks and when we were both very relaxed she was kissing my chest and asked me what the horniest thing I had ever done was. I answered truthfully that I hadn’t done anything outrageous in my past. She said ”What, nothing at all”? I said I hadn’t. She said ”Have you ever fantasised about anything horny like a 3some and if I had would it involve another woman or another man”? This was her way of finding out if the thought of her being fucked by another man was a no no for me or if it turned me on. I answered that I would want it to be another man as I think she would enjoy that more. She touched my cock and said ”So you wouldnt mind me being fucked by another guy”? My cock hardened like never before which she just smiled at and said ”It does turn you on doesnt it”? and that was how it started.
    It was the following week when she was going out with her girlfriends that she asked me which top she should wear to go out in. She had a rather conservative top and a much more revealing one. I said I thought the revealing one was the better option. She agreed with me and said it would probably mean her getting more male attention and did that bother me? I said I was OK with her getting attention off other guys.
    When she was out she sent me a text saying she was right about the top and that she had been hit on twice allready. I found that a real turn on thinking of other men trying it on with my wife. I text her back saying I didnt blame them lol.
    About half hour lata I got a text from her again saying a really good looking guy was coming onto her and keeps offering to buy her drinks and would I mind if she accepted ? I said go ahead darling theres no harm in accepting a drink off someone. She said if i flirt a bit i might get free drinks all night lol. I replied ” Get flirting then lol” I got a message back sayin ”I will ๐Ÿ™‚ ”. I was feeling so turned on by her game that I would have agreed to anything. She text me again when it was nearing time for her to come home and said that rather than get a taxi this guy had offered to drop her home and would i be OK with her saying yes? I said yes I was OK with it. She text saying was this turning me on her being a flirty wife and I said i found it very horny and naughty. She said would I like her to be naughty a little bit tonight? I said she could be as naughty as she liked as long as she told me all about it later. I got a message with about 10 kisses attached and saying see you lata.
    She got home around 2 hours later and looked very sexy with her hair untidy and her make up smudged.
    She hadn’t actually fucked him but they did everything else while parked up in a country lane, she even had a small love bite on her neck. We had absolutely amazing sex that night and our sex life has never been so godd with my wife going out with the guy again and going all the way.
    She has been a naughty wife several times since then and we both love the adventures.

    • Becky permalink
      June 26, 2012 2:04 am

      I started to cuck my hubby about 4 months into our relationship.
      I had been married before to a man that cheated on a number of occassions and i was always the dutiful wife.
      After divorcing i met someone who loved me deeply and treated me like a princess. We lived in the north east and he would go to london on a monday and come back on a friday which meant i had a lot of time on my hands to get a little lonely. After my divorce i didnt want a serious relationship again, i wanted to experience new things and if i was attracted to a guy then i wanted to be able to sleep with him. I had been cheated on many times and didnt see why i should be exclusive to anyone again, i wanted to be in control.
      When my new partner was away i told him that i was going out with friends from work both men and women and he was ok with that, he didnt mind that i had men friends as well as girl friends. there was one guy in particular that has asked me out a number of times and i had held back because we worked together and i didnt think that would be good but i did want him in my bed.My new partner was about the same height as me and not what you would call masculine where as this guy was taller than me, very masculine, muscley and had a broad hairy chest that you just wanted to have your tits pressed up against.
      On 1 of our works nights out carl had made another pass at me and i had let him kiss me outside the pub while waiting for a taxi. i broke it off before i ended up ripping his cloths off. i was so horny for him and wet.
      I said to me partner that i was going out again on the friday night and that there was just the 2 of us going as evryone else was busy doing other things. my partner normally got back from london about 9 and i would be at his place waiting for him but he was ok with me going out on the friday all the same. i met carl at the same pub as the last time but we didnt stay long. we both knew what we wanted and we were back at his flat within the hour and straight to the bedroom where he stripped me and fucked me like he had been waiting for it all his life. He had a bigger cock than my partners too and when he came inside me he held it deep into me and i could feel him twitch, throb and shoot his big load of hot cum into me, it felt incredible having my horny pussy filled by carl while my arms and legs were wrapped around his firm body. He fucked me again before i went home that night and my partner came round around 10 in the morning to find me still in bed. He got in beside me and started kissing me and i got an urge to push his head between my legs and have him taste my horny pussy just hours after i had carls cock and cum inside me. my partner licked and sucked on me for a long time and all the while i just thought about how he was tasting both me and carl and it was a dirty sexy feeling i had as i grabbed his head and ground my cunt against his his mouth feeling his tongue deep in me. I asked if i tasted good and he just mumbled something as he licked me and sucked on my well fucked hole. He didnt seem to notice he was tasting where another mans cock had been or if he knew then he was clearly loving it as was I. I would recommend having your husband/boyfriend eat you after your lover has filled you up anytime, it is such a powerful turn on. Eventually i told my partner that this guy i knew had given me his number and wanted to take me out and would he be ok with it. he was as usual and from there i pushed him a bit further each week until i got him to the point of accepting me staying at my lovers flat overnight as it was so late to be coming home on my own. From there i asked my partner how he would feel if i shared a bed with carl sometimes when i got lonely when he was away and he said he had known for some time that i had been fucking him and he found it as sexily dirty as i did. From that day on every time i have been with a lover i have mad sure i put my panties back on after being flooded with cum so that my pussy is as sexily dirty as it can be before i get my partner to eat me.I have even gone shopping in sainsburys after spending the day being fucked and could feel the hot creamy cum leaking out into my panties as i walked around the shop. i love having wet spunky knickers.
      Any ladies curious about this horny lifestyle should give it a try, you wont regret it for a second.

      • August 27, 2012 5:52 pm

        I loved reading your story. I wished there were more women out there who would venture out as you did and get involved with cuckolding.

      • tom permalink
        October 21, 2012 6:45 pm

        My wife loves having me lick her while another man fucks her then having me lick up all the cum, sometimes from her pussy or off her nipples or belly

      • gigieni permalink
        October 22, 2012 11:37 am

        u r a luky husbant….

  9. simon permalink
    July 12, 2012 7:04 pm

    I am marrying my girlfriend this summer. We have been together for 3 years and in the last year it has naturally evolved into a fem dom relationship. I always felt submissive to her. She is so sexy and intelligent and I’ve always needed her more than she needs me. When we first met she had lots of male friends and even used to joke with one about having sex parties. It took a lot of effort to convince her to commit to a relationship, but in the end she did. Anyway, in the last year she has started expecting me to call her mistress, I have to ask her permission to do anything, she looks after my bank card and gives me pocket money, she decides when I cum and o do most of the cooking and housework.

    • simon permalink
      July 12, 2012 7:10 pm

      Recently we have been fantasising a lot about her cuckolding me. She is really turned on by it and so am i. In particular she is excited by the thought of fucking a well hung black guy and she will talk about it breathlessly while I eat her pussy.
      I don’t know if we’ll do it for real, i just know it really excites her and me. I guess im just scared that if she does it, I might lose her… Do any of you have any advice?

  10. rick permalink
    July 25, 2012 2:25 am

    I would love to see my wife get fucked hard in front of me.

  11. Steve permalink
    July 28, 2012 3:43 am

    I think all men have at some time or another thought of thier wives or girlfriends with other men. I think very few would confess however, frightened of the reaction of thier wives.
    Often the wives first thought is that the husband wants the freedom to fuck other women which is why he is suggesting her having fun with other men. This is often the furthest thing from his mind and he will remain faithful and loving towards her at all times.
    The way it started with myself and my then girlfriend was after making love one night she was still feeling very turned on. I couldn’t manage it again and so she said just use your fingers which i did and then she wanted to feel my tongue so i did what she wanted, anything to please her. I found myself tasting my own cum and for some reason that did it for me. it didn’t taste bad like i thought it would. Afterwards Hayley asked me what it tasted like and i owned up to enjoying the taste. She got turned on laying there having me lick her to orgasm and she made me do it a number of times since. It soon developed from there when we discussed fantasies. Hayley fantasised about making love to a stranger on a beach and i fantasised about her being fucked by 2 men at the same time. She found the idea sexy to and said maybe she will make it happen one day. She asked if i would taste her creampie afterwards and i said it would be my reward to clean her up afterwards. That idea appealed to her horny side.
    When i was at work Hayley would go into msn chatrooms and talk to different people and one man she talked to lived not far from us. He had mailed her a photo of himself and she found him attractive. She told me about him and asked if i minded her talking to him and i didnt mind in the least, exactly the opposite, i liked it.
    I did ask what type of things they talked about and she said just general everyday things but sometimes it got to flirting with each other and he had asked her out.
    I said i was ok with her going out with him while i was at work if she wanted to. She wasn’t completely sure if i would be but i reassured her that i wanted her to meet him.
    They met up soon after for lunch and got on very well and she found him just as attractive in the flesh.
    I sent Hayley a text while she was out with him asking if she was ok and did she still find him attractive. She yes to both but she was being good. I said it would be more fun if she wasn’t good, in fact if she was a very bad girl i would have to kiss her pussy better when i got home.
    She text saying you dirty bugger, be careful what you wish for lol. She then said she was going back to his and she would be switching her phone off.
    I was in another world all day imagining Hayley in another mans bed and writhing around on the end of his big cock as he made love to her. I knew Hayley would be enjoying herself. There is something about the idea of your girlfriend or wife being undressed by another man and her and him lying naked in bed together, kissing and touching and making love while you are at work knowing she is having the time of her life.
    I got in from work before Hayley and she just lay back on the settee and pulled her panties to the side and I could see her beautiful pussy still wet with his creamy cum. She said i think you have some cleaning to do so get on with it and she smiled as i eagerly got on my knees and licked her spunky cunt clean.
    Hayley now meets her lover at least once a week and it is always as horny, if not hornier than the first time and my mouth is always eager to kiss her used pussy better her.
    She has had fantasies about making love to a black guy and this is something i would like her to do as well.
    We both decided that if we wanted to try anything sexual then we should do it while we are both young enough to enjoy or we may regret not having the nerve to go ahead and live a little. We are both in our 40’s and having the time of our lives and will do for many years to come.

    • February 3, 2013 6:39 am

      Perfect life I think. I’m trying to get my ex back into the swing of it. Although we like some fem Dom also. She’s pegged me, spanked me and had me sucking cocks before. As long as she’s happy and content I’m satisfied

  12. Sandra permalink
    July 28, 2012 4:09 pm

    I agree with Becly. Every woman should try it at least once and you wont regret it.
    My friend had a lover for many years that her husband knew about and when I asked her why he did not mind she said because he gets off it big time.
    I told my husband about it and he said the idea that your wife has a lover is a major fantasy of a lot of men.
    When we were in bed I asked if it was his fantasy too. He said he had wanked off over the image of me with another man before but it was only fantasy. He was not certain about it happening.
    I did find it odd that he had this fantasy and never let on but i think men would feel reluctant to own up to wanting thier wife to take a lover.
    By now I was the one wanting to explore further. Whenever i raised the subject in bed i noticed how turned on it got him. I said in a sort of mock joking way that maybe i should join a dating site and see what sort of interest a woman like me could get. He said you wouldnt but if you did I would be more excited by it than you i think. We will see i thought.
    I created a profile saying i just wanted to meet a guy for friendship and perhaps fun as i was married. I got around 30 replies the first day and some were younger and real hunky guys. I am 48 and nearly a stone over weight but the amount of horny and hunky men that wanted me was unbelieveable.
    I showed my husband the profile i had created ‘Just for fun’ and he was gobsmacked but the bulge in his trousers told me he wanted this as much as me.He said which guy would you choose to fuck. I pointed out a guy a few years younger than me but said i quite liked the look of several of them. My husband was getting off on this in a big way and i said do you think he would have a bigger cock than you. He said why dont you email him and find out. I asked if he was serious and he said do you want me to do it for you. I could disguise my feelings and said go on do it. My husband sent the message to him saying how i liked the look of him etc and then it was up to me how to proceed but it had been my husband who initiated the contact and he would there for be responsible for the consequences.
    I have had a lover for over a year now and it is superb. I feel so desirable even though i am just a normal housewife, nothing special. When i am feeling a bit down or stressed I go to my lovers and he makes me forget everything as he makes love to me. There is nothing sleazy about it at all like i thought there might be. We go out like any other couple would and go to bed with eachother at the end of the night. The only difference is that i have a husband at home that loves me dearly but it happy to share me and i am very happy to be shared. I have the best of everything and wouldnt weant it any other way.

    • tom permalink
      October 21, 2012 6:43 pm

      My wife has had many other men and one of her favorite activities is having me lick her while the other man fucks her and continue after he cums , she loves having cum licked of her nipples and pussy.

    • jerr permalink
      January 16, 2015 7:30 pm

      I had to talk my wife into having other men, once she tried it and found I got off on it , she has had several boy friends and quite a few one nighters…I know a lot of people wont understand this but it has brought us closer ……we really love each other more than ever before…jerrr

    • Lida permalink
      May 8, 2017 4:29 pm

      Sandra, I am a lady close to your age and your story is almost identical to mine. My husband has no jealousy at all about me with other men being with me. He is a few years older than me and his ED problems are getting worse. He brought the subject up to me and after several attempt’s, I started to think mabey it was the correct thing to do. The first time felt so strange to me and at the same time, very exciting ! The first guy was 10 years younger than me and was very eager. I would gladly give him an A for his skills, I felt like a young girl getting her first. In short, it was wonderful ! After that I began to feel much more at ease with my dates and I didn’t mind sharing the details with my husband. He gave me my freedom to enjoy men and that made me love him even more. Now at 48, I have to say that my life is better than ever and I am truly happy. Many marriages include special arrangements such as mine and in my case, it has made us more in love than ever.

      • Marlene permalink
        December 9, 2017 6:04 pm

        Lida, beautiful story !! Your husband is wise to allow you to have a complete sex life when he realizes that he no longer keep up. I too have a “Friends with Benefits” arrangement because my husband was worried that I might leave him, as our needs for sex is very different. When husband is out of town on business, I have my FWB in for the weekend. My goal is to have up to five FWB’s and they all would be friends with my husband. I feel that if husband viewed them as his friends, he would be more acceptable to them mabey moving in for short stays. Ladies, it can be a reality for you too! Good planning is needed.

  13. Monique permalink
    August 13, 2012 8:49 pm

    I just met this sweet guy online and he is into this. He has asked me to do this for him because it turns him on. I have never done this or even heard of this so I thought is was crazy. We have talked about it and I’m welling to give it a try. He want me with a bigger size guy which I never had before. His looking for girlfriend and maybe a wife one day.

  14. Kelly and Matt permalink
    August 17, 2012 3:00 am

    If it turns you on Monique then go for it girl. This is about your pleasure more than his. My boyfriend raised the subject of cuckolding with me and like you I was a little shocked. I read stories of couples who had tried it and found that most had discovered a new dimension to their sex life and had no intention of going back.
    I talked about things at length with my boyfriend wanting to make sure that it was what he really wanted. The more we talked about it the hornier I would get and I couldn’t wait to try it for real.
    We went away one weekend in a hotel and on the 2nd night there I let my boyfriend tie my hands to the bed. He had me lay there on the bed naked and he kised me all over while saying things like, wouldnt you like a strangers now and do you want to fuck a nice big juicy cock etc. I was so horny and begging him to find me a lovely big dick. He blindfolded me and left the room for a while and then came back in and carried on teasing me. Then there was a knock at the door and he left the room again to answer it. I was saying whoever it was tell them to go away. I heard muffled voices and the door close again and he came back into the room. I could sense that he wasn’t alone as he got back on the bed and carried on where he had left off. Mean while I could hear someone else getting undressed. The sound of his trouser zip being undone and him taking off his pants was such a turn on. I lay there and felt a cok being brushed over my lips and I opened my mouth and he slowly pushed it in. He tasted delicious and I felt it grow until I could barely get my lips around it. My boyfried got off the bed and I heard him sit in the chair and leave this guy to do what he wanted with me.
    It was the most incredible sex I had ever had.
    When he had finished, after about 2 hours lol, thats about 1 hour and 50 minutes longer than it takes my boyfriend lol, he left and my boyfriend untied me and said, how did you enjoy your first black cock.
    That was so sexy, I will deffo being having a BBC again thats for sure.
    We are married now and he still enjoys me having other guys. I even bring them home and my hubby sleeps in the spare room and he loves to hear me being fucked and cumming over other mens big cocks.I sometimes pop into the spare room to see him on my way to the bathroom and always make him give me a clean first before I go back to my lover for the night.
    Give it a go Monique, if you dont enjoy it then dont do it again. If you do then it means you will never be bored sexually. If you want a new cock one night then go and get it and enjoy it.

  15. Ruth permalink
    August 29, 2012 12:19 am

    I was not sure about Cuckolding my husband in case it affected our marriage but the thought of having other men was apealing to me.
    We would go on the internet together and go into chatrooms and I would talk sexily to other men and it would get both of us very turned on and the sex later in bed was great.
    I did eventually progress to meeting up with a guy just to see how my husband was with it and if he could cope with me being out with another man. He was a litle jealous but also so turned on at the same time.
    The next date I had I went a bit further and made out with the guy before going back home to my husband with moist knickers which I took off and stuffed in his mouth so he could taste what this was doing to me. That was the start of his true cuckolding. I had fantasies to which I wanted to try out and this was the perfect opportunity.
    To cut a long story short I had fantasies of seeing a man suck another man and I made this happen by getting my husband to clean my lovers cock off before he was rewarded with being allowed to clean my spunky pussy.
    It is more rewarding for me I believe because I can get my husband to do anything I want him to now.
    I can go out with good looking guys and bring them home where my husband has done all the chores and has 2 chilled glasses of wine waiting for my lover and me by the bed and if we need anythin else we just shout and its there.
    No going back for thats for sure.

    • tom permalink
      September 4, 2012 10:32 pm

      sounds pretty hot have you tried to have him lick you while the other man fucks you, after you can sit on his face and have him eat the other mans cum from your pussy. Another scenario would be to have two other men and him

    • tom permalink
      October 21, 2012 1:15 pm


  16. Fiona permalink
    September 8, 2012 3:51 am

    Like Kelly my first taste of another mans cock was with a black guy.
    I had watched interracial films and the contrast between black skin on white was a beautiful sight.
    I borrowed a dvd from a man at work and got my hubby to watch it with me while we had a dirty night in lol.
    It showed a housewife in her 40’s I think and she was being filmed by her hubby with his friend who was black.
    It was amateur which was brill and horny. It is true what they say about black guys, they are hung :).
    Hubby asked me what I thought of the film and I said she was a lucky bitch lol.
    Hubby and me were both turned on by it. I asked if the sight of a black guy fucking a white wife turned him on and he said very much. I asked if it would make him as horny if it was me being fucked by a black cock and again he said yes. Talking like this soon had him cumming and me to.
    The fantasy gradually led to me meeting a black guy ‘just for sex’ but it turned into a more regular and fulfilling arrangement. I cant get enough of him. When i see his big beautiful ebony cock sinking into my pussy i just cum all over him. Black guys have such sexy bodies and althogh we sometimes just have hot frantic sex we can also make love for hours and i never tire of his firm body and beautiful dark cock. I dont think it is such a cuckold thing but hubby enjoys that i have a lover and i REALLY ENJOY having a lover lol. I stop at his flat twice a week and i know that i have been made love to for days after. Hubby knows it to as his cock is smaller that Barringtons and doesnt fit so tight afterwards but he likes sinking it into my sloppy just fucked pussy.

  17. PH Stone permalink
    September 21, 2012 3:56 am

    Since I was a shy teenager I was always fascinated by the girls who were known to be “easy”.
    Whenever I developed a relationship with a hot woman it was just a short time before she learned the idea of her being fucked by another man was a huge turnon to me.
    My first wife was 22 the first time another man had her and during the next 12 years she was had by forty men.
    My next wife was in her late 30’s and was enjoyed only once by another man (in Las Vegas, of course) but the only other time I saw her give in to her sexual nature was once when I saw her sitting on the lap of a fellow employing who was playing with her tits.
    I met my present wife for a breakfast date when she was 50 and told her as I was fucking her an hour later that I would be sharing her with others. I had a friend come over about three weeks later and bareback her and from that time on her inner slut, and my cuckold nature, released her and allowed her to be herself – a slut who is totally cock hungry.
    She told me that whenever she meets a man her first thought is “I wonder what his cock is like.”
    She admitted that she had cheated on each of her first two husbands and whenever she was on her own between relationships she was almost never able to turn down any opportunity to get fucked.
    Since we have been together she has been with many dozens of other men (mostly arranged by me, sometimes without her knowing until the other man approaches her and lets her know he is aware of her availability). Since she fed me my first cock during a 3sum in Times Square we are both comfortably bi whenever the opportunity presents itself.

    The best part is the fact we have a great relationship mentally and physically. And it is hot being with a woman who is admired by everyone we know and comfortable in any social setting – and yet is often pantiless and braless knowing there is the ever present chance another man may approach her with a glint in his eye.
    In such cases it is seldom long before she is naked and looking up at him and reaching down between her splayed upraised knees to guide him home.

  18. paul permalink
    September 22, 2012 3:01 pm

    I have wanted my wife to sleep with other men for many years but i dont feel i could ever confess it to her in case she thought i was weird or something. I reckon a majority of men want there wives to look attractive and for other men to fancy them. I want men to look at my wife and think about taking her to bed and not to look at her and think no way. I would like to find a way of planting the seed in her head with out having to come right out with it and say I want you to take a lover or lovers.
    We are both in our early 50’s now and i think my wife is probably a bit prudish or maybe a bit lacking in confidence to ever try it. She is a 16 and thinks shes fat etc but i did show a pic of her in her underwear on a dating site (i blanked out her face so she couldnt be recognised) and there were mesages from over 30 different men wanting to be the one she chose as her lover and that was just the first day. Cuckolding or being a hotwife seems to be so common and normal now but men are just not able to tell there wives or girlfriends how much they would find it a turn on for them as well.
    I want to be the husband sitting at his desk in the day, to look at his watch and know that at that precise time his wife is greeting her lover at the door with a long kiss and will soon be heading to our bedroom with him where they will slowly undress each other and he will lay her back on the bed and kiss her every where getting her so wet for him. She will open her sexy legs for him allowing him to rub his cock over her pussy and then slide into her and make love with her. I dont want her to just fuck other men. I want her to feel wanted and satisfied. I want her to cum over and over with him inside her and then to lay in his arms after and continue to kiss and cuddle with him. To see your wife lying naked after love making is a beautiful sight but to think of her lying naked after another man has made love to her and she is glowing and her pussy is full of his hot cum is the hottest thing ever.
    I am the same as the other male posters on here. I dont want other women or lovers. I want mmy wife to be happy and content and to find a new freedom and confidence in being able to take other men to bed when ever she likes and to relish new coks be them white, black, asian etc, it doesnt matter as long as she wants the man to be her lover.

  19. Hertoy permalink
    October 20, 2012 3:52 am

    I want dearly for my girlfriend to cuckold me but i do not think she is that adventurous and open minded.
    When she is out with friends i am at home imagining her dancing with another man. Feeling his hard cock pressing against her. Her kissing him and letting him touch her beautiful tits. I think of her pussy getting moist and her wanting him. She goes back to his house and he takes her to his bedroom where they undress each other while kissing. He gently pushes her back onto his bed and she opens her beautiful legs to let him kiss her pussy. She pushes him onto his back and sits astride him and slowly impales herself on his big hard cock and they make love until he cums deep inside her. His cock remains hard as he kisses and sucks on her soft tits and his cock carries on sliding in and out of her deliciously sticky pussy.
    She comes home late and as she undresses i see her soaking wet panties and cant hold it any longer as she pulls her panties aside and i eagerly eat her delicious sticky cum filled cunt.
    Thats what i want her to do but fear it will never happen. She is everything i want from a future wife but worry that i will always want this and that it will never happen.
    She is going away with one of her friends over christmas and i would very much like her to be able to pack sexy underwear and revealing dresses and for her to be able to have any man she wants for the week.

  20. October 20, 2012 8:23 am

    Unfortunately, cuckoldry is punished in many cultures and many men kill their wives or girlfriends for cheating on them because they can’t let go of their need for control.

  21. Lucky Man permalink
    October 27, 2012 3:12 pm

    I am similar to hertoy.
    My girlfriend went away in the summer with 2 of her friends.
    I got her some sexy underwear before she went away in the hope that if she felt good when she went out with her friends then maybe she would feel confident enough to be a bit naughty.
    I had never said anything about my fantasies to her. She did say when I got her the underwear that it was a pity I wouldnt be there to see her in it. I replies that as long as she felt good wearing it and felt sexy in it then she should just have a great holiday and do what ever makes her happy.
    She text me when she was away saying how much she was enjoying herself and that there were a few guys that had been flirting with her. I text her and said maybe you should show them your new bra lol. She text bak saying i was a horny devil and maybe i will ๐Ÿ™‚
    I called her a tease and dared her.
    You can guess most of what happened then but needless to say she the guy she showed enjoyed it and after swopping a couple of horny texts with me she ended up in bed with him and we both found it so horny and naughty.

  22. greedyboy permalink
    November 9, 2012 1:58 am

    I harboured desires for my partner to sleep with other men but had never heard of cuckolding.
    The way it happened for us is after making love one night we lay there in bed and Carol was still horny and wanted me to play with her. I know she would rather be given oral sex so it was just natural for me to eat her sticky pussy to get her off again. She seemed a bit hesitant for me to go down on her at first but once my tongue started lapping at her hole she just lay back and enjoyed it. She did ask if she still tasted nice and I said she tasted beautiful. When she had cum we lay there and she asked if I had liked the taste of her pussy after sex and I replied I loved it.
    The next time we made love she was the one that pushed my head down to her pussy and I naturally licked her eagerly. While doing so she asked if my cum tasted nice mixed with her pussy juice and of course it did. She then asked if it was just because it was my cum or would I eat her if it was someone elses. I again answered honestly that she looked so sexy after making love that it it wouln’t matter whos cum it was I would eat her every night. She let out a moan and said she may just put it to the test one day.
    That was almost 2 years ago and since then Carol has had 3 lovers and I always kiss her well fucked pussy better for her when she comes home.
    The sight of a woman that has just had sex is just soooo damn horny.

    • tom permalink
      November 9, 2012 7:49 pm

      you should join her and the other man and then you can lick her while she is full of his cum and maybe even have repeat performances or you could lick her while the other man fucks her and she could sit on your face after

  23. selina permalink
    November 11, 2012 2:28 pm

    I asked my hubby 1 night what his fantasy would be. He didnt answer strait away because he was a little embarassed by it. I eventually coaxed it out of him that he got turned on by the thort of me with other men. This did shock me a little as i had no idea he thort that way. Our sex life was good if a little routine at times but i had no complaints. I asked if he ever thort of other women and he said no. He just liked the thort of me getting pleasured by other men. I said would you want it to happen or is it just a fantasy ? He said if i ever wanted to try other men then he would be ok for me to do it as long as i told him about it and it wasnt kept a secret. Over the next few months we would often fantasise about him being another man that i fancied and sometimes i would own up to having a crush on someone else.
    I never thort it would go any further that fantasy. Not because i didnt want it to although i wasnt entirely sure if my hubby would really be ok if it did happen. The reason i didnt think it would happen was because i was a 52 year old chubby housewife with 3 kids and didnt feel attractive at all. My hubby always told me how much he fancied me but that was a husband talking and not a new man i had just met.
    I was out with a friend of mine that is single and she has a bit of a reputation for going out on the pull. My hubby said he liked the idea of me going out with her because it could throw up all sorts of opportunities. He had said this with a broad smile on his face and i said he wouldnt be saying that when i phone and say i had pulled lol.
    My friend and myself went to a couple of bars in the town and in the 2nd one we got talking to 3 friends who were all around 10 years younger than us. My friend had immediately homed in on the guy that she liked but to be honest all 3 were rather good looking. They invited us back to one of there houses after and we took a take away with us and sat just talking and laffing for a couple of hours. I went to the bathroom and text my hubby and said i may be rather late home and added a smile face at the end. He text back saying he hoped i was very late home and also added a smile face. I went back down stairs and my friend was already kissing the guy she liked on the sofa. The other 2 guys were inthe kitchen getting another drink and so I went in there and left my mate to it. I stood in the kitchen having a giggle with the other 2 and 1 of them said will my hubby be wonderin where i was ? I said he knew where i was so it was ok. I was pouring myself a drink when 1 of them came up behind me and put his arms around me and started to kiss my neck. This always gets me in the mood so i didnt stop him. I was too drunk to want it to stop any how. I turned around and we kissed and he ran his hands all over me. We were still kissing when I felt his mate kissing my neck at the same time.My head went backwards as I got lost in the feeling of having 2 pairs of lips kissing me and 2 pairs of hands roaming all over me. I felt one hard cock pressing into my front and one at the back. It was the most exciting thing i had ever felt. They asked if i wanted to go upstairs and i mumbled yes and they led me through the living room and as we passed my mate gave me a smile and mouthed you lucky bitch. We got to the bedroom and it wasnt long before these two guys had got there clothes off and were starting on mine. I was soon down to just my panties as they got me on the bed and i felt 2 mouths kissing and licking my tits and 2 pairs of hands playing with me. I made love to both of them that night and was woken in the morning by someone kissing my shoulders and neck. I was naked and between 2 naked men and was ready for them again. This time though the one went and got us a drink while i made love to the 1 guy and then he went for a shower and i made love to his mate. It was the most amazing night i ever had and when i got home and told my hubby he wasnt sure if to believe me until i got undressed and he felt how wet and sticky i still was and we had almost the whole day in bed together.It didnt start out as a cuckold thing but over the last year it has sort naturally progressed to that and it is me who comes up with new things to do. My hubby adores who i am and will do anything i say even if he feels a little humiliated by it at times but we both know it is fun for us both.

    • tom permalink
      November 12, 2012 1:47 am

      sounds hot you should have your studs fuck you while our husband is in the room and have him clean their cum of your body

  24. Kathy permalink
    November 14, 2012 9:31 pm

    I am happy to see there are no really negative experiences here. All mine are very positive and recommended to anyone thinking about this.
    These are the benefits I have found being a hotwife
    1 Your partner loves you more for it.
    2 You get to experience the attention of any man you are attracted to without fall out.
    3 Your partner stays faithful to you because he enjoys it as much as you do.
    4 You can go out on dates with different men while your partner stays home and looks after the kids or you leave him chores to do ๐Ÿ™‚
    5 A man wants an angel in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom so you are fulfilling his fantasy.
    6 Your man will show significantly more interest in you sexually when he knows other men want you in thier beds.
    7 Your partner will be very happy to take you shopping for new underwear and sexy clothes for you to go on dates with other men.
    8 Other men will spoil you with little gifts such as flowers, jewellery and weekends away etc.
    9 Your partner will relish in you teasing him and humilliating him a little at times, its fun. I like to get him to take me shopping and make him wear a pair of my used panties so I can get him to try on a pair of trousers and suddenly open the door to the room and embarass him when he has his pants down lol.
    10 You can take a lover home with you and have a ready made to servant to wait on you both.
    11 After making love there is no need to dash off for tissue when you have a servant to clean you up instead, even clean your lovers cock if you tell him to and then you just send him back out of the room to give you privacy again.
    12 It makes you feel like a teenager again when all the boys want you only now you let them have you.
    13 You can sleep with anyone you like, older, younger, same age, black, white, asian etc.
    14 You can act out any fanatasy you have.
    15 Your partner is submissive to you and your lovers and will do anything to please you both.
    16 If you dont like the taste of cum then thats fine because it is your partners job and reward to lick it all up so why deprive him of that.
    17 Your friends will be so jealous of your freedom but in reality thier husbands would most likely be more than willing cucks too.
    18 You will be walking around all day on cloud nine and always sexually satisfied.
    19 The training of your cuck is all part of fun to get him to do the things YOU want.
    20 Your partner will never want to go back to a humdrum marriage, he will love his new sexy wife.

    • tom permalink
      November 15, 2012 4:30 pm

      please tell us about some off your experiences

    • Mila permalink
      July 9, 2013 11:34 pm

      I was wondering if I would able to ask a few questions about the cockold life style if someone don’t mind answering them for me my husband of 4 years has opened up that he has never had a relationship where he was not cuckold, he was never married to any of them ( that’s not the point tho) I have slowly started giving in to the idea we started with just me flirting with other men, then chatting with them to now getting off to them (using toys ect) he loves hearing and watching me do it. now he and the other guy want things to go to the next level. To actually bring the other man it to have sex or whatever and I am fine with this but my husband wants me more dominant say he wants me to cut him off or deny him At times for the other guy and they have both discussed this as over the last year all 3 of us have become close and they agree on this. This is new to me and the thought of denying him sex is not something I ever thought of,

      • July 10, 2013 10:55 am

        Well if their both in agreement then try it on on a trial basis. Cage him and you two make out, walk nude around the house and have sex as the mood takes you. Have him do chores as you have sex. Washing dishes and listening to you two as you use the table to make out. Wash your laundry, undies by hand. That kind of thing.

    • July 10, 2013 11:03 am

      Yes the ideal arrangement for a cuckold. I asked my first wife to be with other men, she found that when she did we had great sex afterwards. Hell I even let her move lovers in with us.

  25. November 20, 2012 7:45 pm

    I love what you have written here and wish there were more articles of such a thoughtful nature. While erotic cuckolding fiction is arousing and can spark the fires down below, it is articles like yours that will best convey the essence of cuckolding as a lifestyle to mainstream women and their men. Imagine if we were reading what you wrote in Cosmopolitan or, Heaven forbid, Ladies Home Journal!

  26. Charlotte permalink
    December 24, 2012 6:07 pm

    A girlfriend of mine regularly sleeps with other men with her husbands knowledge and approval. I asked how she got him to agree to that arrangement and she told me that one of her other friends had a way of subtly suggesting it to husbands and when the man thinks it is his idea then he actually encourages it. She started by mentioning that she was hit on the last time she was out and her husband naturally asked who by. She said just some guy and did it bother him? Men like to think that their partner is still attractive to others so he will always answer no. After that when she went out she would wear something just a little sexy but not over the top and if she did get hit on again she just text her partner about something else and casually mentioned again about her being approached by someone else.
    She said a couple of people she knows have tried this approach and it worked both times.
    I tried it about 3 months ago now and it worked for me too.
    I reckon she should open a school for naughty wife wannabes lol.

  27. Rob permalink
    December 26, 2012 4:22 pm

    I love reading these posts.
    My wife has had a lover for almost a year now and it is the greatest thing i have experienced.
    It has done wonders for our relationship and lovelife and she is happier than ever before.
    She met him at the leisure centre she goes to. They got talking and went for a coffee together afterwards. From there it became a routine thing for them to go for a drink afterwards and she was always open with me that she was going out after classes with a friend. I am ok with her goin out with men and women friends and secretly hoped that it was a little more. She was all ways in a good mood when she came home and when we were in bed she said that her fiend had asked her to go to a party with him because it was all couples and he felt like the odd 1 out. I said she should go and that it would do her good to have an evening out. She said if I was sure I did not mind her going out with another man for the night then she would love to and said it was only as friends after all. I said to go out, forget about being a wife and mother for the night and have a fantastic time and not to rush home and just pretend shes single for the night. She smiled and said was I sure about that. I said yes she should just have a good time and do what makes her happy.
    When she was getting ready to go on her ‘date’ she looked sexier than ever before to me and i was secretly hoping that the guy she was going with would have her back at his home early and they would be a little drunk and horny and make love. As it happened on that night they did not make love but he did get to make out with her and when she got home her make up was a little smudged and she was glowing and she owned up to what she had done and it turned me on beyond belief.
    She has since gone out with him a number of times and now makes love to him weekly and says he is the best lover she has had and they can spend hours in bed making love over and over and always comes home satisfied and with a hot sticky pussy that is crying out to be massaged with my hungry tongue.
    I love that woman.

    • WILL permalink
      December 27, 2012 10:41 am

      you must love not having the pressure to perform

  28. wannabeacuck permalink
    December 28, 2012 10:33 pm

    I have discussed it with my wife she said no way. Now she says maybe oneday hopefully 2013 will be the year she takes a overland cuckoldsmme

  29. January 13, 2013 9:30 am

    Verry good

  30. Lindsay permalink
    January 14, 2013 4:03 am

    what in the world.. how do i find this kind of relationship?? ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

    • Rob permalink
      February 7, 2013 6:07 pm

      Well Lindsay I think that if you wanted this kind of relationship then it would not be difficult to find. More men than you realise find the idea and reality of their partner being naughty a massive turn on. They may not admit to it but someone earlier suggested that if you ask your partner if they were to have a threesome then would it involve another woman or a man and if he answers man then he is turned on by the thought of you with someone else. Next time you are both in bed bring up the subject and say you wondered if he had ever done anything like that before you met him. It is a great way to break the ice on this subject and I shold know ๐Ÿ™‚ my wife tried the same thing on me 3 weeks ago and after fantasising about it while making love I find myself wanting her to take a lover more and more. She showed me this page yesterday and I confess I find the whole thing so horny.

  31. Shanna permalink
    January 15, 2013 11:21 pm

    Why are more women not talking to our girlfriends about this seriously ?

    • Rob permalink
      January 17, 2013 3:17 am

      Is this just a fantasy or is all this for real

      I get the feeling that people are simply posting their fantasies. Can anyone tell me what is the truth here !!!!

      • January 17, 2013 7:45 pm

        Well. Nobody can. But I agree with the site admin of, where he explains the site rules: “Do not question the truth of a post presented as non-fiction. If living this lifestyle has taught me anything, it’s that truth is often stranger than fiction and things that would be unrealistically crazy for one person are simply a matter of daily living for another. “

      • Clay permalink
        May 21, 2013 1:44 am

        hi rob.. .it’s real. my fiance, with whom I have more than one child, recently tried an outside situation and loved it. she’s anxious for more. this really is more common than you might imagine. also… a lot of women go to great lengths to live this way

  32. Charles permalink
    February 1, 2013 7:22 am

    My wife and I started this about 6 months ago and the only regret I have is that we waited until 25 years of marriage to start. It is awesome, what a sexual awakening for her. She is 45, getting fucked regularly by guys from 26-35 who work out and have great bodies and love fucking her. Our sex life is thru the roof, she is horny 24/7, like I was when I was 18 or so. I’m getting more fun sex now than ever, I get to go watch some but most of the times she goes out on dates, all fixed up and looking great, then comes home to tell me about it as she undresses and get’s into bed and tells me to get my surprise!! She has talked me into sucking cock, I didn’t really like it, to much work, but I absolutely love cum. I get to lick her pussy clean or belly, face, wherever she tells them to cum. It makes my dick so hard it feels like it’s going to explode. Best sex of our lives without question!

  33. February 4, 2013 9:40 am

    I really feel well when I heard about it all. I do like like it my wife may cuck me..even I expressed it her but not direct way..we sit together in yahoo chat and I used to show the guys masturbate and she has excited with some guys are having big cock 7-8″ but mine is just 6″ and thin.I asked her see the cock that guy is having how do u feel?!! she said it may hurt ; with a smile but I was not watching the cock but I was watching her expression. Her problem is that she argues on nonsense things and we fight always and she doesn’t like I speak with other women and she tells whenever I talk with women I involved a lot with them…I don’t know really what she wants…If I force to do so something for my pleasure she may complaint that I was pimping..Can any one give me some idea that how can I convince her in a proper way I am from India/Kerala …I would like watch my wife with another man I would like to clean up.

  34. Charlie permalink
    February 25, 2013 2:23 am

    My wife and I were the original party couple in our thirties. We began going to a swinging club (although we didn’t swing) and my attractive young wife became increasingly flirtatious with other men. Then she began teasing me as she danced with other men and telling me, “how much she felt she needed more out of our relationship.” I knew what she meant and by that time I had become somewhat submissive to her and it just happened. I was surprised that her first affair was with a well-endowed black man who was much bigger than I was. We have a mutual agreement now and she enjoys sex with other men and we are both happy with our marriage. I love watching other men making her orgasm and my dick becomes stays hard all the time! I think white women, some white women, were made for black men.

  35. begherto permalink
    March 9, 2013 5:09 pm

    I have always dreamed of my partner doing this but have no idea how to raise the subject with out her thinking I dont love her or fancy her etc.
    I want her to be able to go on dates with other men. I dont mind if they are white, black etc as long as she is attracted to them and would like to take them to bed and make love them. I dont just want other guys to fuck her. I want them to really make love to her and for her to feel sexy and fulfilled. I want her to come home having had the best love making session of her life and for her to look forward to the next time she is naked in anothe mans bed with him deep inside her and with them both cumming together.
    I adore licking her and always think about how sexy it would be if . she had just spent the day or night with another man, enjoying each others bodies. I think it will always be fantasy tho .

  36. Charlie permalink
    March 12, 2013 12:34 am

    It’s interesting reading some of the responses. I never wanted to be a cuckold and I am not lacking in terms of my physical anatomy. The way I became a cuckold was through a developmental process. I am eight years older than my very attractive and formerly rather naive wife. I can say she’s definitely not naive today.
    When we became SCUBA divers and we discovered we liked it we continued our classes and eventually became instructors. We were in Cozumel Mexico for two weeks on a diving vacation. We were having lunch at a place called Ernesto’s that had excellent chicken fajitas. We had had an excellent two morning tank dive when Janet looked at me and said, From this moment forward every time I suck your dick you will swallow your cum and if you finish inside of me you will eat it out of my pussy. I was shocked. I asked her, “Why would I do that?”

    She replied, “Because you are a cum slut and I told you you would.” That evening after our night dive she gave me a blow job and then she kissed me and filled with my warm semen. Before we returned home, I swallowed five mouthfuls of my semen and went down on her four times eating my cum out of her pussy. A short time later we joined an alternative nightclub, which was really an off premise swingers club. While we never went all the way with another couple we did everything but that. My wife sucked other men’s on several occasions and then kissed me filling my mouth with their semen. I I quietly swallowed and pretended that I was just kissing her.

    One night we were with another couple and while I was with the man’s wife he got to Janet. She found she loved with other men and we decided to pursue other man for her. Once once she discovered she could have sex with a man she was attracted to without any repercussion and that I would remain faithful the die was cast. She can have her cake and eat it too. It just so happened that the next man she had sex with was black and very well endowed. Since that point in time she has been with the number of black men,all of them well endowed, I love her very much in it is extremely stimulating to watch a black man make her orgasm. This is not what we had planned when we got married, but neither one of us
    wants to change a thing. I was her cuckold before either one of us knew what the term meant. I never asked her to make me one but I was broken long before I became one.

  37. GM Free permalink
    April 28, 2013 10:31 pm

    As a Black Bull, i enjoyed reading all the comments here immensely.
    There really is nothing more beautiful or sexy than sharing a hot wife with her husband’s permission; and i’m not just talking about a meet & fuck here. I am talking about genuine friendships with genuine people you can have a conversation with.

    To all the cuck husbands and hotwives – A bene placito. If fate permits, maybe our paths will cross, and i could be a part of your wondeful experiences.

    GM Free

  38. jack boy permalink
    May 12, 2013 4:35 pm

    My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for many years.
    My wife is bisexual and has a very high sex drive.
    I have been cuckold by both, male and female lovers.
    We very much enjoy our life.

  39. Shauna permalink
    July 10, 2013 11:48 pm

    I have been talking to my girlfriends slowly about this . It turns out they have no idea what I am talking about.

    The average woman has no Idea what cuckolding is. So now what ?

    No one in the mainstream is giving it the time of day to portray it correctly .

    How come ? There is so much interest in it. This thread is proof of it. It will grow 10x when more women know it’s a option for them.

    Why a decent movie , even a b movie hasn’t been made I don’t know.

    • WILL permalink
      July 11, 2013 4:30 pm

      excellent point, one of those Lifetime movies, a made for tv chick flick would be the thing to bring it into the mainstream

    • July 12, 2013 1:10 am

      Everyone has heard of swinging and it’s possible you will get more traction by saying “swinging where only the wife swings” instead of cuckolding.

      I was hoping to make cuckolding more mainstream with my book and quite a few couples have emailed me to say they’ve gotten involved after reading it even if only as a mutual pillow-talk fantasy: Cuckolding: A path for women and a resource for couples.

      • Rob permalink
        August 10, 2013 6:54 pm

        Hello Caroline

        I wanted to ask you something.

        My wife loves the fantasy and pillow talk around fucking other men. We talk about this every time we make love.

        My wife is a gorgeous blonde model originally from Russia, and as you well know Russian women are gorgeous. She is hot upon by many men at night clubs when she goes out with her girls friends.

        However, when I ask my wife if she wants to fuck other men for real or when I try to arrange for her to see someone else she freezes or gets upset.

        She says I am not interested in other guys.

        Sometimes, she says MAYBE, if I like the guy.

        My wife is quite picky about men.

        What I want to ask you are:

        1. is this NORMAL behavior for a woman who has not fucked other men outside marriage?

        2. What do you think my wife’s MAYBE really means ?

        3. What should I do to encourage her to cuckold me ?

        A gentleman in Geneva who is the Ambassador of one country to the United Nations has offered to fly my wife out to Marbella or Paris for a weekend. She ofcourse is very reluctant to go ….

        What should I do to make her take the trip from Russia to Marbella or Paris.

        Would it make it easier if I went along with my wife ?

        Thanks for your help,


        PS I would greatly appreciate it if you could send me your email address so that we can chat in private

        Our email is

        Yahoo Messenger = sexyfloridian

        Skype = sexy.floridian

      • September 19, 2013 5:02 pm

        This is an answer to Rob:

        No, it is not normal for a woman to have sex outside of her marriage openly. The statistics on the number of women who do it covertly, however, would amaze you. In our patriarchal society, a woman’s sexuality is hidden and suppress and there for the pleasure of the male. women who fully express themselves are punished and therefore that activity usually happens in secret.

        I think “maybe” means “you have my attention in a big way but I don’t want the blow-back that could come from this”.

        The best thing to do is to continue talking about it. Maybe you should watch some videos together of real cuckold couples to see if the actual activity turns you both on. There are many out there as opposed to the porn version, which to me is a big turn-off. You might have her read either one of my books on cuckolding.

        I hope this helps. Let us know how it goes!

    • July 12, 2013 2:43 pm

      Well not in a movie, but in Stieg Larsson The Girl Who Played with Fire (2nd part of the Millennium trilogy) he describes a typical cuckolding relationship one of the main characters has with her -supporting and aware- husband by having a sexual relationship with another man.

    • Claire permalink
      August 17, 2013 4:33 pm

      me neither i don’t know, i just found out details from a practicant cuckold and i’ve been reading and watching stuff for 3 days now and i relly can’t get enough of it, i really should get my own cuckolh hubby ๐Ÿ˜€ they should make some documentaries on discovery about this ๐Ÿ˜€

  40. Melissa permalink
    July 29, 2013 6:03 pm

    What advice would you give to a woman just entering a cockhold relationship for the first time?

    • GM Free permalink
      September 8, 2013 12:49 pm

      @Melissa – As a Bull, my advice is to take it slowly. It all depends on what you are looking to get from the lifestyle. Also, is this your husbands idea,or yours? Men and women desire a cuckold relationship for very different reasons. It may be that the husband feels he is inadequate at pleasing hs wife sexually, so he wants her to explore. It may be that he, or both are into the humiliation part, or the wife simply needs to satisfy a sexual appetite. It may be that you want lots of lovers, or just a single long term lover. Do you want a Bull, or just a lover? What i am saying is that be clear about the reasons first.
      Do take your time as it willl not happen overnight. You have to find the right moment, the right person (there are many types), and both you and your husband have to be also right for him. Also, you may want to draw up some ground rules with your husband, as to what is or not acceptable; this will depend on the level of control you have over the issue.

    • Mary permalink
      May 8, 2017 5:02 pm

      Mellisa, My husband and I have had this arrangement for several years and I still get so excited when I know that soon I will experience another man. My husband has never been with any other woman but agrees that I should have a full sex life. I love sex and men very much and I soon learned that I had total control over them. My advice to women is to keep your body slim and in good shape and do everything possible to keep your good looks. It is so exciting when men 15 years younger flirt and I know its OK to flirt back !! Its very flattering to know that I can choose almost any man I like and even bring them home for the weekend !! Other advice, make sure your guys know that it is ONLY for sex and there are no feelings of love at all. After you move on to the next guy, try to keep their friendship ! Also, practice SAFE sex !! Be very careful in this area.

  41. Don permalink
    July 29, 2013 8:07 pm

    Nothing is better than being married, two people building a family and future together. The best marriages are one way open relationships. I think it works out best after two kids and being together 15 years. In the year 2013 the husband just has to share this fantasy and the wife is no longer “shocked”. She will just say something like that is what Rita and her husband do.
    Then the beginning of a totally sexually charged marriage starts. Every night you go to bed with your wife, it is instant hard-on. She can turn you on with conquest stories, while you lick her shared pussy. So guys, tell her tonight it turns you on for her to date other men and and promise her it will be a one way open marriage.
    Life will be great!!

  42. GM Free permalink
    August 10, 2013 10:40 pm

    Hello Rob, though your questionis not directed at me, i will attempt to elucidate you with answers to your questions.

    1. Your wife’s behaviour is absolutely normal. Do remember this is uncharted terriroty for her. Moving the fantasy to the realm of realityi s indeed a big step, and she simply may not be ready – yet. Remember, making it a reality is going to change her perception of herself, and possibly your perception of her’. These are issue she is trying to deal with.

    2. Maybe means maybe. Sometimes she thinks she is up for it, and somtimes she is not sure she is capable of it. either way, she is certainly interested in the idea; but there are issues she has to overcome for this to become reality.

    3. Simply encourage her to flirt with other guys. Reassure her that you think no less of her and you actually enjoy the fact that other men desire her; (she enjoys this too),but needs reassurance that is it ok to explore this area. Then encourahe her to talk to you about those experiences. When she understands how much it excites you, and how it charges your lovemaking sessions, she will be more open to it. It is really a little bit at a time in cases like these. When she is comfortable with actively flirting, and sharing the experience with you, you can then push the boundaries a little bit more.

    4. I very much doubt your wife will go on this trip, as it’s too much of a step to take from ground zero. She will be out of sorts and certainly out of her comfort zone. If possible, i would certainly advise that you go along with her.

    Hope i have helped out a little bit.

    GM Free

    • Rob permalink
      August 10, 2013 10:57 pm

      Thanks, your comments were very helpful.

      It so turned out that this so called Ambassador to the United Nations is a FAKE.

      I asked him to organize my wife’s visas to Paris and Marballe. He said he wont do it.

      So I reported him to the SDC Help Desk which is where I Met him.

      Have other cuckold couples also run into FAKE MEN who claim they are wealthy, handsome, well educated etc but turn out to be FAKE

  43. February 15, 2014 3:15 am

    I wish i had a wife who would cuckold me i would love her to go out and fuck other men and come back to me and she makes me lick her clean afterwards.

  44. March 4, 2014 1:38 am

    we dabble with cuckolding and we would both much prefer it. We live in the boondocks though and even an occasional stud is rare. A steady bull exists only in fairytales

  45. James permalink
    January 11, 2015 3:16 pm

    I’ve been cuckolded by my ex gf last year, but the difference being that she was married although now separated from her husband,whom she said did have an idea that she was seeing other guys,she told me that he had never came near her sexually for the past six years.

    We met over 2 years ago on holiday and we started a long distance relationship which was wonderful,she slept with me on the second night after we met in my hotel room and the sex was fantastic to say the least, to explain to you she was 49 and I was 56 when we first met and she admitted to me that she likes men who are older than her, she was and still is great in bed and her blowjobs are sublime to say the least lol, she is gorgeous with lovely little tits, a beautiful face, and best of all a wonderful shaved pussy that any man would love to put his cock in and fuck her silly.

    It all ended badly the beginning of last year when she split with me, explaining that she had joined an Internet dating site in November 2013 and had dates with other men whilst still being in a relationship with me, and I obviously had no ideas when we were together after Christmas 2013,I had licked her pussy where another man had his big cock the night before, and knowing this Now is a tremendous turn on for me, and I still wank myself to death thinking about it, in fact I’m wanking myself now writing this.

    She was fucking another guy at the same time as him who also had a big cock, me having a less than average sized one, both these guys were heavy cummers which she loves, and feeling them shooting their big loads in her.

    Another guy was fucking her in summer last yearwhom I know, and he has a big cock and is a heavy cummer as well, she isn’t on the pill which I never knew about, and she always fucks bareback, but theyve all had vasectomys and i haven’t so I guess she’s been lucky that I didn’t get her pregnant as I believe a woman her age can still bear children.

    It seems to me that she just loves being fucked by guys with big cocks and she just can’t help herself, although with me now knowing all this and it turns me on tremendously, at the time I just couldn’t handle it as I’m a very jealous guy and I was totally in love with her.

    I wished her all the best and I told her that I hope she has great sex with any guy that fucks her now or in the future.

    Sorry this has been long winded but I feel I had to tell this the best way I could.

  46. Diane permalink
    February 24, 2017 1:32 pm

    I do not really call my husband a cuckold but he does fit this description. A few years ago I had an affair, a short very wild two months of crazy sex in all sorts of places. We had been married for five years and honestly our lives had become boring.
    I met Rob at work. He was a rep for a client and had been flirting with me for a long time. One day he came in late to drop off paperwork just as I was leaving. We began to talk and I mentioned my husband was out of town for work so he invited me to dinner. I normally would not have accepted but I was tired, hungry and he suggested a place I really wanted to go to.
    We ate and it was wonderful, the food was great and he was really fun to be around. I almost forgot about being married and was thinking if this was a first date I would be not eating as much and wondering how to get him to ask me on a second date and of course, how long before we had sex.
    But I was married and knew there should not be a second date (not really a date here) so I ate and was completely comfortable. He walked me to my car and automatically I leaned back on the door and gave him one of my big eye vulnerable girl looks. I really didn’t want or think he would kiss me, I guess I just wanted to see if he would try? It was super romantic, the moon was overhead even though some parking lot lights where on, the air was sweet from a spring rain and the temperature was just right. Just a little chilly but not cold
    He was staring into my eyes and I knew he was wondering if he should try and kiss me. I thought the moment was over but then he moved closer and pulled me into his arms. I didn’t resist like I thought I would. He is a very attractive man, the type woman have fantasies about. He kissed me and I just melted, I knew right then and there that I was going to cheat on my husband.
    We went to his place and screwed like teenagers until we passed out. I woke up the next morning with no idea where I was. Then it hit me, I had spent the night in his bed after fantastic mind blowing sex. I looked over at him completely naked without even a sheet to cover him. He was laying on his side facing away and he butt was built so cute I almost reached over and grabbed it. I decided to slip away and go home but then he turned and exposed what I had SO enjoyed the night before and it was ready right now!
    We kissed and I crawled on top and for the next two hours we did things I no longer even did with my husband. It was a Saturday but I still had to leave, go home and call my husband who would be coming home late that afternoon.
    I pulled into my driveway and staggered out of the car. I was still wearing the dress from yesterday, minus my bra that was in my purse and my panties that I never did find. I opened the door and there sitting at the kitchen table was Dave, my husband. He had taken an early flight and a cab home.
    I stopped dead. Our eyes locked. I knew I must reek of sex, my hair was a mess and I had not even put on my face. I was caught red handed and there was no way out of it. I sat down next to him without saying a word. He just asked who and how long. Of course I didn’t want to tell him who but I said it was just a one time thing but then the details. I told him everything and he demanded I go into full details even including “size”
    It was then at some point I realized he was turned on by all of this! I simply could not understand why he wasn’t angry or jealous. He took my hand and led me to the bedroom. Still in shock and well still a bit drunk I let him take me to the edge of the bed. He sat down and pulled at my clothes. Then he put both hands on my hips and pulled my crotch to his face. He licked me! He kept at it and I felt some stirrings I had never expected.
    He pulled me into bed and kept at it until I began to orgasm and as I was really getting into it he got on top and entered me. It was then I had one of the best I had ever had, I even came close to screaming! He let loose and we just laid there in each others arms then fell asleep.
    I still do not understand how, why or anything about why this is such a turn on for him. If he hit another woman I would be furious! However, I now keep at least one lover and see them a few times a month. I always tell my husband everything and our marriage is no longer boring!

  47. Dan permalink
    May 1, 2017 9:32 pm

    My wife has had several lovers over the years but now she has settled down to just one lover. They spend weekends together sometimes at his house , sometimes at our house and sometimes they go away for weekends.

    I help my wife get ready for a date and make sure she looks sexy and I even buy her sexy things to wear on a date.

    I’m never allowed to watch them when they are in our home making love. My wife wants privacy when making love to her boy friend. I am allowed at times to clean her up after he cums in her.

    My wife is very strict with me. I am kept in chastity 24/7. I have chores I must do and rules to follow. She does discipline me when I break her rules or don’t get my chores done. Discipline is usually a spanking, mouth soaping, corner time and extra chores.

    I do everything I can to make my wife happy because that is most important to me.

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